Still Struggling and need help #3

[reachingHigher]

FB is tough, CB. When your spouse wants to shout out to the world their new interests its a perfect platform for them!

I got messages too from well-meaning friends and relatives. I got offers for prayer, curiosity-seekers (what is going on?) and my H got some questions too. I just thanked them all for their interest and said something plain like "we are working on some things, thank you for your concern" or whatever.

I figured the ones that were at least brave enough to ask (plenty more are not saying anything) deserved some validation although not answers.

I continued to look at FB and it continues to pain me. Although I look much, much less.

Years ago, people didn't have a way to advertise their indiscretions so readily. I think about that a lot. I'm reacting more strongly b/c it's in my face and it is also visible to our friends and family.

I used to use it to flirt with my H but it disgusts me so to have my pic in line with all his girls he is friends with on a post. And it really incenses me when he posts pics of our kids and these "friends" who don't even know them or us as a "family" post comments or "like" things regarding my boys.

No answers here. Just rambling. I know how bad it hurts. Just wanted you to know you're not alone and if you could get this tat-boy out of your thoughts it would be better for you.