This week I'll order the tabletop grill she mentioned that she'd like to have for her balcony this summer.
Careful there....
Think of another way to do this. If I remember correctly, you already have a house full of your material things to replace the emotional things you were lacking....
Am I correct ???
Find another way to do this....
Ordering it for her, could be confused for more of the same behavior from you....
Maybe...
Let her know that you have "x" number of dollars for her to spend however she wishes. And then let HER pick what she wants.
If it is the grill ??
Then that is good.
If it isn't ??
Then that is good as well...
Letting HER choose, may be more powerful than the gift..
Letting HER choose may actually BE the gift...
New you RS, old patterns out the window....right ????
