Hi JS! I like how you expressed that you had been a half for too long, and need to be whole before entering the dating scene (or words to that extent). I feel the same. I'm not even divorced yet, and friends want me to go onto dating sites. No thanks. I need lots of counseling before I get anywhere near to one of those, if ever. I've been a half for too long too. I'm loyal to the extreme (it will override trust, love) and I'm finding it hard to break free from that aspect of my personality, no matter what my H did.
I'm also glad it's over, but I'm also having a hard time getting to the point of complete breakaway. I'm not emotionally involved anymore, but there's just that something that's keeping me from following through with the D. How did you do it?
Thanks for your wise words.
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim