Thanks, Portia. Absolutely, I have no doubt we will be fine.
I didn’t want to discourage you. Our situations might be similar, but there are still differences. My H is already moving towards the D and trying to be friends with me, in his weird way, but nevertheless he is trying to see how it will work out. You SO is still on the fence, it seems. Your patience is very crucial at this time.
You might be right that my H is testing the temperature. I don’t know why though, I’m trying not to mind read. I’m a little surprised that he kind of stopped the D process for now. Maybe he thought that I would do it for him, or we would do it together, as we always did. We were always a good team. Too bad, he is on his own now.
M:50 H:52 S28 (my S from previous marriage) M:17 + 3 BD: 06/12 S: 06/12 - H works in another state