First off it sounds like you did good in this conversation by validating and not defending.

I have to ask though...

Does it feel like you're going round and round and ending up back in the same place? Seems very similar to previous conversation you guys had. Some things I think she's even said before.

She is VERY confused right now and no matter how much you want to be there for her you have to give her space to figure this out on her own.

She also said she can't commit to anything which she also previously said. I get the feeling she's feeling pressured for whatever reason. Pressure on a WAS is not a good thing. This is why we're asking you to lean out and give her space.

No new advice here Chris, you know what to do...


Personality is who the world sees, character is who you are

Turn your trials into your testimonies

Don't believe everything you think

Expectations are resentments waiting to happen