Divorced-not done-But wondering ?

[jaytee35]

JJAC,

I understand your concern on this one. I think from the advice that I have been given is you want to do a 180. Whatever you normally would do and she expects you to do, do the opposite. I am still new to all of this but I had a situation where I still had a wedding gift to give my waw. She would have expected me to sell them and collect the profit since we are not together. I did the opposite and gave them to her with NO EXPECTATIONS!!! I heard nothing from her. So if you do, Do not even expect a thank you...and be prepared. This is my two cents but the vets can probably give you better information. Good luck!