I definitely agree with you guys. There is absolutely nothing wrong with crying. Just don't do it alot in front of W. I really get emotional when talking about my girls. I still miss my W and M dearly. I have cried at work before and in front of certain friends when discussing my sitch. I just don't cry as much now as before. I guess it is kind of like losing a loved one. You cry alot initially but over time the crying happens less and less. You don't miss them any less, you just learn how to control the hurt. As they say, time heals.
M 37 W 36 T22 M14 D8 D4 8/2012 distanced BD 11/2012 (likely wants D. Feelings have changed.) W move out date: June 8th.
M46,W41 D16,D18 M22,T25 BD 11/12 W moved out 01/13 Piecing 10/13 Divorced 01/15 "Whether you worry or not has no affect on the outcome. But, moving forward, letting go, and making changes can." UrWorthy
Hey JP. Not real sure what the plan is after work. W had mentioned that she may go to a movie with a friend, that would have me with my girls to do something. They love watching movies with dad on Friday nights and making popcorn and/or cookies. Tomorrow BIL graduates from college and is having a cookout afterwards. We will all go to that. How about you?
M 37 W 36 T22 M14 D8 D4 8/2012 distanced BD 11/2012 (likely wants D. Feelings have changed.) W move out date: June 8th.
That sounds good! Not sure what my plans are, kinda waiting to see what D's do. Mothers Day weekend, so probably just find something for me to do for me...
M46,W41 D16,D18 M22,T25 BD 11/12 W moved out 01/13 Piecing 10/13 Divorced 01/15 "Whether you worry or not has no affect on the outcome. But, moving forward, letting go, and making changes can." UrWorthy
Man, the weekends are the worst! I guess I see more of her on the weekends and I just have a hard time with it. I know, I need to detach more. I can't let her actions dictate my behavior and mood. But check out this convo:
Me: I want to see the Great Gatsby W: I do too. I have texted (friend) and (friend) and neither one of them can go. I guess I will go by myself.
About 2 hours later she says "see ya later, goin to the movie". I respond "see ya".
Now on the surface this probably shouldn't bother me. But it did. I guess it just hurts that she would rather go sit at a movie by herself than to have me go with her. I am not a bad person! She should have just kept her comments to herself about not being able to find someone to go with. It's not only rude but just mean. Ughhh!!!!
Just venting! Now you can return to your normal programming.
M 37 W 36 T22 M14 D8 D4 8/2012 distanced BD 11/2012 (likely wants D. Feelings have changed.) W move out date: June 8th.
Second your right, she should have keep those words in her head.
I'd like to see that movie myself, I'd love to go with you. I'll buy the tickets and you get the drinks and popcorn!
Glad to see you venting here
M46,W41 D16,D18 M22,T25 BD 11/12 W moved out 01/13 Piecing 10/13 Divorced 01/15 "Whether you worry or not has no affect on the outcome. But, moving forward, letting go, and making changes can." UrWorthy
Sometimes, I swear, that they just do that stuff to cause grief.
Yeah. I cry now and really feel it. After years of stuffing the pain under a layer of anger I broke through the crusty layer and exposed the pain. Cripes, sometimes I think life was easier when I was a dick.
Yes, weekends really... really... yeah.
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