I should have added to the above.....I in NO way would "expect" anything to come of the gesture....however, I have to be honest when I say I would have a little "hope" that it would at least spark a smile or nice thought.
I think that its always nice to give a gift that says something about the "receiver".....and not about the "giver" Keep it simple, but thoughtful.....
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