labug, sorry to hear that you are a little down today. You have been such an inspiration and helpful in your comments - to me and many others on this board (and I am sure to many who you meet in the 'real' world).

Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers!
Originally Posted By: labug

Originally Posted By: Reality Trip
"I want this pain to have a redemptive purpose in my life. I want it to mean something. Pain not transformed is transferred. It would surely lay seed to resentment.

This is a good thought for the day. Thanks for sharing.


Me-48,W-51
M-22,T-24
S- 18,16,9
Feb-Jul '11 Away from Home, after initial B date
Aug-Dec '11 Back at Home on couch
Dec '11-now Same bedroom, room mates only
Dec '14 W files initial D paperwork