Thank you for the comment it really helped a lot. Perhaps you're right and it's a way for her to avoid her feelings - which would only be temporary.

I'm kindling filling her comment in the "believe nothing of what she says" box for now.

W 39 Me 33 M 9yrs
8 year old Son
ILYBINILWY - Dec 12
W moved out - Jan 2013
OM - Jan 2013
I file for D - May 2013