Hi Alan. Your mother is very wise. It's funny how so many people echo the principles of DB without even knowing their doing it. Stay positive and keep posting

I really like what 25 posted. The only thing that bothers me is that WASs don't do as well after D. I really want my W to be happy and to find whatever it is she's looking for. Maybe it's just some inherent psychological quirk in a WAS that they want or need something that they can't find in the LBS because it doesn't exist and hence they'll never find it in anyone else either. It makes me feel more compassionate for my W's sitch because, not to sound maudlin, she seems to be tilting at the imaginary windmills in her mind.


M41 W42
M 12 T 15
S10, D9, twin Ds 3 1/2
BD 1/2/2013
Living as roommates
Working on D agreement w. mediator 5/13