Stander probably does feel that on his own, but he's like a musician: it's fine to jam but it's also nice to have an appreciative audience smile

As for me, I can't criticize anyone's choice of how to get through this, the most stressful time in anyone's life. I won't date because I still don't really know exactly who I am and what I want (I need to find my bearings living on my own in this foreign place), but I can also understand the appeal of having someone to talk to who doesn't have that sneer of disgust plastered on their face during most interactions.


M41 W42
M 12 T 15
S10, D9, twin Ds 3 1/2
BD 1/2/2013
Living as roommates
Working on D agreement w. mediator 5/13