AS, we're so special lol!!!...oh guess when I found out the EA, yep the following year days before my bday. I'm sure you seen my sig.
JP, semperfi--thanks ! JP don't worry about the hijack. Btw I saw a little of ur sitch, your OM sitch is same as mine..w childhood friend then now popped in saying he looked for her blah blah crap BS!
Leo thanks man. You know good question. The thing is I don't think I have something to gain being in limbo. But for some reason I chose to I suppose for the kids I'm such a softie when it comes to them. And I've been wanting to get off limbo before 2013. I did let go of my W in my recent sitch but she wouldn't. Leo did you file in your sitch? I want to hear more about your thoughts about your question. It's just lately I'm thinking of filing myself. It's just the last sitch I found proof she's still in EA, I just won't live with someone who cheats me. I deserve better than that...also why would I live with someone who doesn't love me? I'm starting to value myself. I know I'm not there yet but I'm starting to realize.
Ok update: I got to work and everyone knew it was my bday, I couldn't hide . Then D18 called me wish me and wanted to take me to dinner. Then late in pm W called me wish me and even got me a little present--I was so shock ! So we all went to dinner. Oh and recall I was gonna plan something this weekend, well I did booked a hotel 2 hrs away and w will even join us. Nothing to get excited about its within the norm. I had a great day afterall.
And of course thanks to all of you that wish me.
Newman
me40; W43 M18; T~20 D18; S13 & S3 bomb 5/9/11 EA busted 4/30/12; 9/4/12; 4/29/13; 6/10/13 same OM
Separated 4/1/14
"Even a flicker of light will shine through darkness-12/25/2012"....better days ahead.
. Then D18 called me wish me and wanted to take me to dinner. Then late in pm W called me wish me and even got me a little present--I was so shock ! So we all went to dinner. Oh and recall I was gonna plan something this weekend, well I did booked a hotel 2 hrs away and w will even join us. Nothing to get excited about its within the norm. I had a great day afterall.