Update:
Made it home when I walked in the door H was doing laundry. He asked me about a few shirts of the girls & if they could be washed with the load he was about to start. WTF? This is the man that would not speak one word to me earlier. He then asked me if I was gong to take a shower now or later. I answered him & got in the shower.

So, I'm going to lay down & watch some tv. I haven't done that in quite some time. I'm actually looking forward to it.

I will not say a word to him or initiate any type of attempt to discuss any of this. The ball is in his court. Lets see what he does?

Oh…and as far as setting the boundary with the phone calls, if it happens again I will remind him on how I feel about it & ask him to stop. I will tell him that it's not acceptable & if he wants to continue to do it it is a dealbreaker.


M 34
H 35
D 7 D 6
M 10 T 14
Pregnant w/ boy/girl twins-due 12/2013
BD 12/15/12