BTW- the friendship I have is similar to my friendships here--based on friends trying to save their M's. Plus, I am not attracted to him (& therefore it feels very "safe" to me).
GALs this weekend- Tomorrow- going walking w 2 GFs to "talk & walk." Then after scrambling my boys around to where they need to go am off to an evening of VB (meetup- 2nd time)!
Saturday- ball games for half the day (unless it rains) then off to see my SIL & her girls for a play one of them is in.
Sunday (Mother's Day)-- church in am then probably off to shop w a GF (although can't afford to spend any money) UNLESS FIL comes over (as I invited him b/c he will be alone for the first time ever after his wife/my MIL passed in August), then I'll probably hang around w him at home...hmmmm, hope that doesn't mean H thinks he's coming over to hang out too.
Since I am playing VB tomorrow night and S11 is going to a sleepover party I offered up the idea for S9 & S14 to sleep over at H's apartment to which he replied, "Sleeping over is over-rated."
INTERESTING COMMENT. S9 & S14 have only slept over twice & S11 has only slept over once in 6 months. It doesn't seem as though H is jumping at the opportunity to have more time w the boys. Someone who said, "I have been thinking about having them sleep over every Saturday night," a month ago then back-pedaled the next day.
Actually, it suits me fine that the boys don't sleep over at his apartment as I like having them here w me. And, they are old enough to stay home in evenings w/o me if I want to go out for a while (like VB).
Oh, and boys & I are having a party on Sunday over Memorial Day weekend! Haven't told H yet, but don't think he'll even consider coming....IF I invite him (just kidding, I will b/c I know it's opening the door).
H hasn't been much of a socialite over the years, except when in vacation-mode. Then he's the life of the party! Interesting now how I am starting to have more of a social life than I've EVER had in my M.
You all are invited to our party, BTW!!!!
M- 18 T-21 S-14,11 & 10 BD 6-18-2012 (OW-EA) H moved out 11-3-2012 10-5-13 Me- I want a divorce. I want to move on w my life. 11-25-13 Jointly filed.
