Hi Tal...PMS and running out of anti-d's at the same time, huh??? Have you learned NOTHING from Pam's threads? LOL!

Oh hon, who says there has to be a time frame to "get over it?" I DON'T agree with a "forced ritual" if either party is not TOTALLY ready to let go. I know I'm not there yet.

And like Sage...there are certain things from the time of the A's that really bother me...not done with it all yet.

Case in point: things are going well for CJ and I of late. Right after my pityfest he started doing the very things (well some of them ) that I was missing.

Yet today while he was out picking up our draperies from the dry cleaner a long distance number popped up on our caller ID...I gave in to the urge to check it against OW's # and area code that I have in my "evidence file".

The call came from Toronto...the other end of the country and was likely a telemarketing call.

Frankly Tal, I'm not beating myself up over this. It was a blip. There may be more...

I'm SOOOO glad your V day turned out so well.

And I thank you for the "Hyde" comparison to Wolfie...explains a lot!

Shiny