I agree with snodderly about the time. Yesterday when H came to the house, he made a comment about something I wanted to do about 2 months ago and already have it done. To him it was “fast”, not so much for me. It felt like a lot of time has passed since 2 months ago. This is how our time perception is very different right now.
M:50 H:52 S28 (my S from previous marriage) M:17 + 3 BD: 06/12 S: 06/12 - H works in another state