Take the focus off her and move it on you. You will need something to control -and it won't be her
Stop snooping
You are not a mind reader
If you've read sandis 37rules 50 times already -do it again
If she tells you that she is having a pa -is that a deal breaker for you?
What are some measureable short term goals you can work on and achieve over the next 7days?
ME 38 W 37 T18 M5 D3 BD 1/7/13 PA Conf 2/11/13- Ongoing 2nd simultaneous affair Confirmed 4/19/13 W gets APT and begins transition out 5/29/13 First mediation appt 12/19/13
