My WAW - coming to terms with it all!

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Its my W birthday today. HAve not made a big deal about it.
I sent her a text this morning saying " happy birthday"

The boys and I bought some gifts from the supermarket to keep it all non personal. Things like some new socks, lip balm, vitamins etc. I know it sounds ridiculous but this is the kind of stuff she gave me for my birthday so I am just going along with her sentiment. I didnt ask her to go for dinner etc, because I am not sure if she actually wants to spend any time with me.

Its hard to know if I have done the right thing? Have I been a bit too cold and impersonal? It feels wrong to be so cold about it all but I figure that its in keeping with LRT?

I feel like asking if she wants to have a little family dinner at the pub butI am afraid of the rejection. It might be best to just ignore it. ANy help out there??