OK, so my wife called just a couple of hours ago and asked if she could borrow and come pick up my spare computer monitor. First time she's picked up the phone and called me in a month. I told her it was fine if she wanted to borrow it. She came over and just left a few minutes ago. We talked, mostly her really, for about 30min about work and what's been going on with her family. Nothing even close to R talk. I mostly listened and followed her lead. It was pleasant, just like two friends would talk.

I feel slightly neutral about it, but maybe a little hurt. It just feels a little strange talking with her. I guess because I still feel a strong connection with her and she seems to act like we're simply friends.


Me:38, Wife:36
M:8
T:13
No kids
Bomb:3/10/13
W moved out:3/30/13
Started D paperwork: 10/14/13
D final: 12/30/13
To a future of love and happiness...