Thank you for the response and being very clear. Yes unfortunately I am still looking for the silver lining. I know she pretty much wants nothing to do with me and our relationship is as good as over in her eyes but I guess I am just looking for the small signs that she may be backsliding on her decision to divorce. I will definitely take the advice and just pay the cash, close the account and then notify her that it is closed and ask her for the difference. If she gives it then awesome, if not then oh well and I will move on.
I am getting better detaching but I still have tons of hope and think about her all day. GAL has been easy but letting go of hope and thinking of her constantly has been very difficult to overcome.
Patience.....wow have I been patient. And I know I need to be more. I just keep telling myself if it is meant to be then eventually she will come back but who knows when. That is helping me with patience.
Another stander,
I did end up mailing the gift to her with a small not stating what you told me earlier, I felt like she should have them because they were her gift from the wedding and I already cashed in her gift to me. I have no expectations......honestly, I am pretty certain she will sell them and take the profit. Which I am okay with.
Me 33 W 32 Married 10/13/12 WAW Started sleeping in spare room 1/13/13 Divorce filed 2/13/13 Seperated 3/1/13 till ????????? Divorced 5/28/13
