I would love to say to my W give up OM or I'm not going to be around you. But that simply Isn't true and I doubt she would anyways. But i am distancing myself and I am going to continue to do me. I don't know how to explain it JP but after inset those boundaries on Tuesday night I just feel different. I feel like I'm my own person again instead of worrying about what she thinks I am or what I do. Listen to Mach1, Urworthy, ad advina. Take there advice and run with it. I would not have gotten through Tuesday night without there help and getting my mind right first.
M 37 W 30 S 7 Together 10 years Married 9 years BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day) I moved to apartment 1/11/13 W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13 Peicing: 6/3/13 Reconciled: 7/2013 BD2: 4/20/16 still working on it