JP! Listen to advina! This is exactly where I was Tuesday. I said what I said to my W. feel much better since I put up my boundaries. And for the first time I realize that we both have work to do on ourselves individually. No expectations at all . You can use the time you give her to better yourself. You got this!!
M 37 W 30 S 7 Together 10 years Married 9 years BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day) I moved to apartment 1/11/13 W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13 Peicing: 6/3/13 Reconciled: 7/2013 BD2: 4/20/16 still working on it