JP! Listen to advina! This is exactly where I was Tuesday. I said what I said to my W. feel much better since I put up my boundaries. And for the first time I realize that we both have work to do on ourselves individually. No expectations at all .
You can use the time you give her to better yourself. You got this!!


M 37 W 30
S 7
Together 10 years
Married 9 years
BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day)
I moved to apartment 1/11/13
W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13
Peicing: 6/3/13
Reconciled: 7/2013
BD2: 4/20/16
still working on it