Thanks RH. That is a good strategy. When I am in a negative mood, I don't listen well and get more argumentative. Just don't want to go in feeling so down.

Me; 42, W; 43
M; 16 yrs
S12, D9

3/13 - "I want to move to XYZ City (four hours away) and it might be without you, not sure"
5/13 - "Not sure I meant that"