Have to leave for counseling in 1/2 hour and struggling to come up with a strategy. I am obviously frustrated by tat-boy, comments about her not sure if she wants to continue, etc. Yet, I think it is important to go in with a PMA and appear strong, not pathetic. Suggestions?

Me; 42, W; 43
M; 16 yrs
S12, D9

3/13 - "I want to move to XYZ City (four hours away) and it might be without you, not sure"
5/13 - "Not sure I meant that"