I will comment that, even though she may be giving you lip service in saying that she is in a better place now, it could also be a positive. If she is feeling any type of pleasure out of being out with you or doing things with you, her mind can try to twist that all she wants, but she can not erase it.
The point is, we will sometimes hear the WAS / MLCer say something about having lost their passion. While that is most likely depression speaking, they still have passion. We see it in how they can take on partying or D or an AP with great gusto and verve.
She is missing a passion for where she is. She's directing that energy at XYZ city and possibly tat-boy.
She will only look within when she looks within. Until then... only a spark or bright, guiding light, may get her passion for staying to be more than her passion for leaving.
