I am in a similar sitch. My W makes good $. For the most part she enjoys her job, but where we more come together is the changes.
Mine started working out like she was training for a prize fight. Started dressing nicer. Started really getting religious about shaving her legs and skin. I see clothes and shoes coming in from different online stores. And her physical therapy sessions went from where she was there from 6 to about 7:30...to later 8...to later 8:30...to where I am lucky if she walks through the door at 9 to 9:30.
She tellls me its because they have added more exercises to her regimen, but I also know she has developed a relationship with one of the OT's there. He is in a band, and I met him once, a postive and good looking guy.
Am I conjuring crap up in my head? Maybe. Maybe looking nicer and the clothes are due to her promotion at work and wanting to look professional. Maybe she is working out more at OT to improve her injury.
But it doesnt help after the BD.
Me-45,W-36 M-12 yrs, T-15 years SS- 16 Nov 2003 Initial B date, 2-3 others since EA/PA OM 2003-2004 Reconciled 2004 May 2013 Final BD, W completely detaches W files D June 2013 I am moving out 26 July 2013
