Originally Posted By: Jeack
I was feeling good until BIL accepted friend request on FB.


I seriously don't think anything good ever comes from Facebook, LOL!

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Then running into mutual friend asking lots of questions when he's asked none in the past. Just seemed like maybe she was trying to figure out what I've been doing the past week since I haven't been contacting her. I did tell mutual that I a round about way. Pretty much said not sure what's going on, haven't talked to her.


Good, the less you say the better! Anything you say WILL get repeated back to W, so if you can be brief and vague then that is exactly what they will tell your W, and she will wonder why you're being brief and vague. Being mysterious in DB'ing is GOOD! Make them wonder what you're up to!

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I really like how you said about our M being dead and wanting a new R.


Glad you like that, it really is about starting over again. If you read threads in the "Piecing" forum, many of them start back in with dating just like they're going out with someone new. Of course it's not -completely- like starting over again since there is a rich history there, but you get the point smile


Me: 60 w/ S18, D24, D27

M: 21 years; BD: 06-14-12; S: 09-10-12; D final: 03-17-14; XW:57