Not really, no. I do think she was in a dark time, but I don't believe that 7 weeks later, and two weeks of ADs can change it that much. To me, telling your spouse you are not sure you want to be married is the marital equivalent of the a-bomb. You don't unleash it unless you are prepared for horrific effects. To think that she did it casually is not very likely.
CB
Me; 42, W; 43 M; 16 yrs S12, D9
3/13 - "I want to move to XYZ City (four hours away) and it might be without you, not sure" 5/13 - "Not sure I meant that"
