CB, your W is AT LEAST in a transition and at worst in MLC.
She's chasing after xyz city for (in her words) reasons of boredom. Certainly, we all understand that certain areas can be dead pools of culture and entertainment. Still, we make the best of it and find ways to get value out of where we are and venture into different areas to get some variety.
You are not going to convince your W with words, that moving to XYZ city may not make her happy, or that she can find happiness in the community you live. In the same way that you won't be able to use words to get W to out her fantasy or realize it for what it is, regarding tat-boy.
Personally, I have returned to places that, in the past I had really good experiences. And I found, like we all do who do this, that those times were in the past. They are gone as have many of the faces that we associate with those good times. We need to make NEW good times.
She's looking for fun times and good experiences... how are you being a beacon for those things?
