I understand why you keep contacting her. You want her to say she will stop having him in her life and that she wants you.
I'm sorry sweetie, but, she cant say that right now. That doesnt mean she wont be able to in the future.
But you keep pushing and she is going to make a decision. And right now, it is not going to be you. And even if it was, do you think it would work knowing she did because you forced her to, or worse yet because she's worried you are going to harm yourself?
Come on now, get a handle on your emotions.
J, you've kind of cornered yourself.
At this point, I would just say, this is where I stand regarding om. I cannot allow myself to be in a relationship with you while you are engaged emotionally with another man.
I heard what you said about me regarding you having friends. I am sorry that you felt that way.
And I heard you that you need space and time.
I would like each of us to allow the other the opportunity to figure things out about ourselves.
Or something to that affect. And then please stop contact.
Dont push for something you arent ready to hear.
J, this aint gonna get better til you do something different.
