Grizz, I helped my wife extensively when she moved. Part of our S deal was that I would buy her some new furniture in exchange for her not taking half of everything out of the house (she did take a few things which we sat down and worked out beforehand). So I went with her to shop for furniture, I paid for it, and I assembled it all at her house for her. I have no regrets about doing this, I think it helped us remain on friendly terms during what could have been a really difficult time. Plus I didn't come home to a half-empty house! Others advise not to help at all, and I think for many sitches that is appropriate. Do what you think is right for you.
