LBH, I’m with you here. I don’t get much response on my posts too. I was also wondering what I was doing wrong.
Just keep posting. I was almost WAS once, about 4 years ago. I’m trying to remember what I was thinking at that time. It seems that I was in some kind of a fog, so I don’t actually remember a lot of it. I remember that one of my complaints was that I was not getting much affection from my H. I also compared my M to my friends’ and saw something that their husbands did and mine didn’t do for me. Now I understand that we spoke different LL. I didn’t move out, but I worked in a different city during the week. I remember I was trying to convince myself that I deserved a better life and a better H. I was in this funk for about 6 months from what I remember.
Your situation might be different. But, whatever is going on with your wife, she needs more time to figure it out. Be patient.
M:50 H:52 S28 (my S from previous marriage) M:17 + 3 BD: 06/12 S: 06/12 - H works in another state
