a: Yes! My daughter turned out just fine after my first h left me.
b: Yes! I moved on after my first M fell apart & met my current h... we have been together almost 20 years.

Life does go on... as much as I find hard to believe at the moment.

Fyi, I understand that its OK to take a break from reading & this forum too. Just get back on track when you feel the need to again.

M:46 H:49 T:20yrs
myD:22
H distant summer/12
H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12
BD: Dec 2/12
asked me begin to move end of Jan/13
moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff)
"agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)