JP... you asked how u can do that while still giving her time?
just as Sayitaintso suggested:
"Wife, I am no longer able to be in a relationship with you as long as you are with another man"
And then back away and try to again place the focus on yourself.
CAN YOU DO THIS JP????? CAN YOU??
She is asking if we are done, wont this say yes if you stay friends with him? or force her to end it and then resent me, which she said right now she would?
She wants time and idk how to hold my ground and state that is ok
M46,W41 D16,D18 M22,T25 BD 11/12 W moved out 01/13 Piecing 10/13 Divorced 01/15 "Whether you worry or not has no affect on the outcome. But, moving forward, letting go, and making changes can." UrWorthy
