I am ready to stand by my decision, yet I don't want her to make a choice to stay with me and break off their relationship causing her to resent me.

I think I want to sate that I don't accept their relationship and that I am not pushing for divorce and want to giver her time.

The problem I see is that it feels like I am giving in to her keeping him for now.

I wish I truly knew what their relationship was or why she feels she needs him still.

This is frustrating and I am not sure how to word it all so that I am clear but not saying I want a divorce.

M46,W41
D16,D18
M22,T25
BD 11/12
W moved out 01/13
Piecing 10/13
Divorced 01/15
"Whether you worry or not has no affect on the outcome. But, moving forward, letting go, and making changes can."
UrWorthy