It's been only a week without contact. Just worried she thinks I don't care about her anymore.
What happened to this?
"Today is one week with no contact. Feeling pretty good."
Good feelings gone already? Remember, NC is as much for you as your W. You both need time and space. A week is nothing, give it a few more before thinking about whether or not it's working.
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I'm really starting to lose any kind of hope that I can salvage this marriage.
Your goal isn't to salvage your old M. It's dead and gone. Your W doesn't ever want to go back to that and you shouldn't either. So work on you, become the best you possible. Hopefully some day your W will become interested in a new R with a new you.
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As I wrote earlier. I was kind of taken back by a mutual friend of ours asking me so many questions about what was going on with the D. I know him and my W are suppose to go skydiving next Tuesday.
Do NOT talk about your sitch to mutual friends or family. Encourage them not to talk to your W about it. In your most polite and diplomatic way ask them to butt out. Just tell them you and your W need time and space to think things through and leave it at that.
