New to this ...

[steveh27]

So I haven't done this yet but thought of it. Her older sister is like a mom to her and I'm sure she doesn't know the full story of the EA or to the extent of the detailed issues between us, but she hasn't been talking with anyone who seems to be supporting keeping her family together. I know this sounds like a bad idea, but lately she hasn't been in a good spot due to ending her marriage and also her EA falling through to go back to his W. It's alot to deal with, and obviously her twin sister is not going to be much help. I was thinking of just calling and saying ... "I really don't want to put you in the middle, but I think your sister really needs you right now as I'm not sure she is in a good state at the moment. Im not going to explain the details, I will leave that to her but I understand where she's at with me and I have come to accept that but she just doesn't seem to be ok. Could you give her a call, she may need to just hear you say it will be ok regardless of what happens."

I know this violates one of the 37 rules but does this sound off base? Nevermind this does sound bad, doesnt it.