Originally Posted By: jp787

I am lost



No you aren't...

You think that you are...but you aren't

What you are, is running on pure emotion right now, because you can't let this rest for a bit.

You think that you are going to talk your way out of this...

You still think that your marriage hinges on one interaction. and it doesn't...

That is the emotion...

You need to look up, get up, and not give up...

Take a walk, run, whatever to get out of your own head right now....

Things are rarely as bad, or as good as one thinks that they are.

And if you can stop spinning around for a little while, her response was FULL of good stuff....