Suckerpunch down to the wire

[25yearsmlc]

Sp

so you were not trying to spy on her time...fine. But you DID SAY that you "did not give a rat's ass" what she was doing at that time, (or words to that effect.)

To ME, that is either angry denial of spying (which you say you're not doing and I accept that)

OR it's some sort of devaluing of her time.

It's definitely a hostile way of expressing yourself.

So, that's my point.