Make it PERFECTLY CLEAR, that your boundaries are for yourself, and for the marriage. They are in no way, to punish her for anything....
And that is the line that you risk crossing, between a boundary and being controlling. And it is damned easy to cross that line.
Agreed....and we have discussed that blur between boundary and control.
Originally Posted By: Mach1
There will be no contact initiated by her, and everything she receives, she will tell you about.
I like that. I told her the second part the other day, but even so, I'm still having to ask at this point. It's frustrating. I think she's answering me honestly, but I hate that I have to ask. I think part of it is that she thinks it's going to turn into a fight, so she'd rather just avoid it....guess we need to discuss that too.
