If you were such a good wife then why did i stray?

[tiredndrained]

Raine,thanks for the quote. I agree. It is so true. I've come to the conclusion he just has poor moral values and bailed as soon as things got difficult. The context of the text was that I asked him if he wanted to go to a family bbq for Mother's Day in which he started an argument that he will never see my family again because I was not a "good wife" and didn't keep my mouth closed and told people our business. I have never told him if and who I discussed things with My response was that he never once came clean about his ow and what he does at night. I don't feel the need to tell him who I talk to since he doesn't feel the need to discuss with me his PA and his relationships outside the home and everything I find out it is bc I am having to find out on my own. I then followed up that I was good to him. He responded that if I was so good then why did he stray. Arggg...he is so annoying at this point!!

KLM...so true

Mizjjd...you always make me feel better. He is typical midlife crisis but I am at the point now I don't want to stay any longer. Move on and move along but it is so hard to pick up your life. I look at my home, the kids, the finacial sitch and wonder how it can be done or if I even have it in me. He takes me on this crazy rollercoaster that I can never get off of.