Just a quick question. When your W's failed to "own" their A's, what excuses did you get? Mine simply told me she wasnt in love with me, thought it was over, and "moved on". We "reconciled" but it was completely on her terms...and it left me conflicted for years. I am not even allowed to bring it up.
Now in my sitch, I was on the other side of the globe in Iraq in '03 for the first PA, but after this last BD in May 2013... I am hearing many of the same things about our R from her and the reason she is done. She claims there is no OM...denies it. But she denied the last one in 2003 also until I caught her red handed with key logger software.
Me-45,W-36 M-12 yrs, T-15 years SS- 16 Nov 2003 Initial B date, 2-3 others since EA/PA OM 2003-2004 Reconciled 2004 May 2013 Final BD, W completely detaches W files D June 2013 I am moving out 26 July 2013