I think if all of us LBS really think about it....we have been walking on egg shells for years. I think we are all in tune somewhat with our spouse and can recognize trouble. If they made statements or smaller BD's in the past, it only raises our guard as we stumble through our R trying to fix things, please them, or avoid exasperating the problem.
PS..how many posts does it take to get off moderation. I have posted/responded to 15 threads and started one of my own, but havent seen anything yet almost a week later . I know, I know, patience.
Ha ha - I would say around 15 by the looks of it!
Me: 38 W: 35 M: 9Yrs T: 15Yrs S8 D5 BD: Feb 13 Still Living Together
I feel like I'm in thick forest, I'm slowly drawing a map of the way out, but not sure yet which side of the forest I will emerge.