I think if all of us LBS really think about it....we have been walking on egg shells for years. I think we are all in tune somewhat with our spouse and can recognize trouble. If they made statements or smaller BD's in the past, it only raises our guard as we stumble through our R trying to fix things, please them, or avoid exasperating the problem.
PS..how many posts does it take to get off moderation. I have posted/responded to 15 threads and started one of my own, but havent seen anything yet almost a week later . I know, I know, patience.
Me-45,W-36 M-12 yrs, T-15 years SS- 16 Nov 2003 Initial B date, 2-3 others since EA/PA OM 2003-2004 Reconciled 2004 May 2013 Final BD, W completely detaches W files D June 2013 I am moving out 26 July 2013
. I know, I know, patience.
