I have this exact same question ^^^^. W has cited a lack of communication in our M as a major problem, so I don't know if giving her space now is a 180 a 360 or just falling flat on my face
It's a bit of a no-win situation sometimes -- a real Catch-22 -- because the solution to the problem sometimes seems to make the problem worse.
M41 W42 M 12 T 15 S10, D9, twin Ds 3 1/2 BD 1/2/2013 Living as roommates Working on D agreement w. mediator 5/13