Be honest with yourself, you didn't have a revelation that she was right because the rest of your post is still about how she's wrong.

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My W knows what is right, deep down.


I'm sure she does, but do you really believe that? If so, stop trying to tell her how wrong she is.

Good luck with your meeting.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss