I have been working at some new "180's". I have been concentrating on NO-OW or A talks - no "what I need" talks and focusing on tons of physical affection and affirmations. I don't express verbal affection as well as I would like to but I have been practicaly slathering it on.
Out of the blue today, Wolfie tells me that I am his "best friend, true-love and soulmate". I expressed a lot of gratitude for him telling me that. I hid the little grin and never said "what took you so long to figure out what was there all along?"
