I'm tired as heck this morning, but am feeling determined to get my needs met even if it means litigation. I hate the thought of it, but know it's necessary. My H is banking (literally) on me folding so he can walk away a winner. He's a true gambler and is being drive by all of the sick characteristics. So, my best response - call his bluff. This is very difficult for me since I have let my fear control me in the past. It would be easy to sign the current agreement so I can get the carrot that's being dangled (bonus money), but I know once my fears subside, resentment will build. This will be a test of my growth (yikes!)

Any advice from those who have (or haven't) been through D litigation?