I loved your post on the way our spouses must feel knowing they betrayed us! WOW!
Quote: If you are convinced that you are "bad" and wrack yourself with guilt over the "bad" things you've done in the past that prove that....then you are at very high risk to continue to go off into episodes of doing "bad" things to punish yourself and keep that shame from fading away.
That is sadly my H!
You have helped me to see alot here and try to understand what has been going through my H head. How sad!
{{{talista}}}
Thank You! Because I know I've said and done things a year ago that will be hard for my H to forgive; filing for a D and getting evil about it (thanks to my att). Hope someday we can both get past the pain we caused each other. I'm trying at least.
